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Support for the generation above you, coordinated.

Your parents need steady, trustworthy help — and you need to stop being the on-call coordinator from across town or across the country. A Friday visits on standing days: errands, the house, appointments, and honest eyes on how things are really going.

Not medical care — practical help, working alongside whatever care is already in place.

A sunlit kitchen, tea for two
Help that works your way

Top requested tasks of families of aging parents

Every household's list is different — these are the things families of aging parents hand off first. Your personal assistant checks them off before you think about them.

This week Your assistant's list
Prescriptions picked up Refills tracked
Ride to the 2pm appointment There and back, door to door
Groceries in, meals prepped The week covered
Laundry, folded and away Fresh linens on the bed
Light housekeeping done Kitchen and bath
Mail sorted, bills flagged Nothing slips
Detail — groceries put away in a tidy pantry
Wide shot — a personal assistant and an older client on an errand together
A week in the life

What a personal assistant or house manager can tackle in one week

Two mornings
Mon
Tue 3 hrs
Wed
Thu
Fri 3 hrs
A 6-hour week 9 tasks
  • Grocery store and put away
  • Lunch meal prep
  • 4 loads of laundry
  • Make beds
  • 1 set of bedding done
  • House reset
  • Walk the dog
  • 1 vendor scheduled and met
  • Returns and dry cleaning
The mental load

Open loops. We close them.

Think of open loops as unfinished tasks living in your head, creating mental clutter. By handing off these tasks to a personal assistant, you can close the loops. Fewer open loops means less mental clutter.

Which service fits

Two ways to start

From Friday households

What changes when someone's on the ground

I am currently in the process of downsizing my home and its contents in preparation for moving to a Senior Living facility. This is a significant undertaking, both physically and emotionally, and Friday Personal Assistants has been instrumental in helping me navigate the process.
Kathleen Ohde Friday client
Friday Personal Assistants is patient, approachable, dependable, and easy to work with. Their ability to communicate clearly while remaining sensitive to the personal nature of this transition has made an enormous difference to me.
Kathleen Ohde Friday client
I work outside the home & have lots of family around needing support & love & can't find the time to finish household repairs and organization. I was overwhelmed and desperate until Friday arrived ready to help!
H. Rolapp Friday client
Questions, answered

Asked by adult children, specifically

Is this home care or caregiving?

No — Fridays don't provide medical or personal care. They handle the practical layer: errands, the house, appointments, and companionship on the logistics of life, working alongside any care that's already in place.

My parent insists they don't need help.

Very common — which is why we match for rapport first and start small. A weekly visit from a warm, capable person reads as company, not a verdict. Most resistance fades within a month.

Who gets the updates?

Whoever the family designates, with your parent's knowledge. Updates cover logistics — what got done, what's coming — not surveillance. Dignity is the design constraint.

How are Fridays vetted for this?

Every personal assistant or house manager is interviewed, vetted, and background checked before entering your home. Every personal assistant is a W2 employee under NDA, and certification includes working respectfully in older adults' homes. You'll review the profile and meet them before anything starts.

How many hours do families book?

Usually 4–8 a week across one or two standing visits. The 2-minute quiz suggests a number from your parent's checklist — and you can sign up on their behalf.

Be their kid again. Not their coordinator.

About 10 minutes online — you can set it up on their behalf.